Separate the event from the story.
Today’s idea
An observation and the meaning you give it are not the same thing.
Everyday example
“My colleague has not replied” is an observation.
“They do not respect me” is an interpretation.
Today’s practice
Choose one mildly frustrating situation. Write down:
- What happened?
- What meaning did I add?
- What else could explain it?
- What response would be fair and useful?
Evening reflection
Did a more precise description change how I responded?

